it went on for 20 years (i didn’t know about it when i married him) and i hated it; progressed to grossly deviant/violent porn; would you stay if you hated it, or divorce him? (he was also emotionally abusive)
Yes I would and yes I did. These problems escalate. Emotional abuse turns into physical and mental abuse. GOOD LUCK. you will need it.
What we can do as human brothers and sisters to get rid of drug trafficing which leads to addition and death? Seems by now drugs should be playing the part of helping people who are fataly ill, to live not die.
the problem is the laws. People have been addicted to drugs for ever. Its the fact that there are waiting periods for people trying to get off of them. There are two types of drug users 1 the person who doesn't want to quite until everything around them is destroyed and the 2nd is the person who wants to quite, but doesn't have the resources available or is on a waiting list for treatment.
with state financia for drugs addition, alcohol abuse
I think thats awesome, There is nearly not enough. Are you asking how, or if its a good idea?
I need help finding a Video Game Addiction Clinic in Florida
Or some place that will help.
i dont think there is such a thing…. why dont you just try going to a therapist?
friend I am doing engineering from IIT kharagpur. before coming here i use to be a very innocent guy. but due to huge stuff of pornography available through LAN , I have became addicted to it. every morning i think i will not watch any xxx movies but my will power break down in a week. I feel very guilty about it. I have tried many things, I offer namaz (5 times daily) read spiritual books, make lot of friends, hobbies, try to keep myself busy but in the night while going to bed my urge for pornography became paramount and i am blown by it.
please pray for me and give me ur valuable suggestion, i will try to follow it.
Bro,i too had the same Problem…now i am alright….its all the dwelling of shaiytaan,,,u offer namaz,,that's great..!thing U start reciting aayatal kursi..it will certainly help…may not in the beginning but in few days….dont sudenly stop seeing that stuff… if u watch 1hr today make it 45 mins tommorow,,,than 30 mins than 20mins….then gradually with namaz ,and aayatal kursi…it will be alright dont FEEL GUILTY>>…it happens..nOw from Today itself…bE A change MAn..COME ON>>>U CAN DO IT…While Wacthing Think of Ur family mother father ,,sister…They Are expecting u do some great thing and Lo ur wasting ur money and ur health…Wat After dying u goota answer allah also…dont forget that…so be in company of islamic boys…and visit graveyard thinkin that u have to come here one day…so u should be prepaid….not with Pornography…but with Pure islamicgraphy…alright…
allahhafeez …see u……
risk of getting cancer and the Nicotine part of tobacco products are attributed to addiction, not cancer, then the main culprit has to be tobacco. It is the common denominator in tobacco products that remains constant. Why has this product not been re-called? There is more than enough evidence and documentation that clearly states that this product is harmful, deadly and addictive. If tobacco were used in any other product, there would have been an instant recall. Why on earth is tobacco allowed to still be accessible, affordable, convenient, and accepted when it causes more death and destruction than all of the items the FDA and CPSC have re-callled combined? Does anyone know of a reason that tobacco should not fall under the stipulation set forth that trigger an instant re-call in some products? Is it because death is not within a couple of hours, days-weeks? I was not aware that re-calls only took place if a product caused harm or death withing a specified period of time
I think the true reason is that the State and Federal Governments both can't afford to ban tobacco products. They are making so much money off of tobacco it is like they hit the lottery. On top of this is the fact that recalling all tobacco products wouldn't stop people from using them. They would just go underground like liquor during prohibition. It is also very addictive and is killing thousands of people too. It would be sold on the street the same way as pot and other drugs. These are very much against the law and it has slowed down the use of drugs very little. All of the money from drugs are going to the illegal growers and drug dealers instead in the government's pockets. I don't know what the answer is, but it is getting very expensive to smoke and more and more uncomfortable to smoke in public. Maybe people will start getting the message, but I doubt it.
Can anyone who uses proficient English correct my Essay?
I am an international student and in holidays at the moment.
I would like to improve my English writing skills.
I've typed my essay below.
Please correct grammatical mistakes and suggest me better expressions for awkward setences.
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Our society has placed a critical restriction on drinking and smoking ages, especially on the younger people since drinking at early ages is thought to be harmful for their bodies. However, younger people at present take in plenty amount of nutrition, compared to the past generation, and as a result they have better-developed bodies. With such physical change to the younger generation’s body, smoking and drinking could be still harmful for the health. That is, we still have to hold the strategy onto the younger people due to several reasons.
First of all, the most obvious reason why we have to keep such strategy is rapid physical growth of younger people does not mean they are emotionally mature. Even though they may not be able to find any difficulty in doing smoking or drinking, they are still too immature to distinguish what is right or wrong. That is why they have to be protected under the legal circumstance and be limited doing something that could be harmful at early ages. In addition, smoking has already proved to be harmful for all people regardless of ages. That means at whatever ages they are smoking, it is still harmful for them. For the case of smoking, young people aged in teenagers spend most of their time on studying. However, committing alcohol abuse during adolescence, they must cause many different social problems. According to recent research, the students who drink heavily and frequently have shown an impaired memory ability, being three times more likely to attempt suicide than those who do not drink. Most certainly, there is no study on how better the younger generation’s body has developed than the previous generation. Therefore, we should not decide yet to ease the restriction on underage drinking and smoking policy.
It seems to be we should not ease the restriction on underage drinking and smoking policy yet at this stage due to several reasons. Whatever has taken place, it is generally true that smoking and drinking at early age are very harmful and further other problems associated with them can be caused by the younger people who abuse them. Scientists need to study more on how human being’s body has developed and until then, such a furious debated should be suspended.
Our society has placed a critical restriction on drinking and smoking ages, especially on the younger people since drinking at early ages is thought to be harmful for their bodies. However, younger people at present take in plenty of nutrition compared to past generations and, as a result, they have better developed bodies. With such physical changes to the younger generation’s bodies, smoking and drinking can be still harmful for the health and that is why we still have to hold on to several strategies for the sake of the younger people.
First of all, the most obvious reason why we have to keep such strategy is that the rapid physical growth of younger people does not mean they are emotionally mature. Even though they may not be able to find any difficulty in smoking or drinking, they are still too immature to distinguish what is right and wrong. That is why they have to be protected under legal circumstances and be limited from doing something that could be harmful at early ages. Secondly, smoking has already proved to be harmful for many people of all ages. That means that, at whatever ages they are smoking, it is still harmful for them. In the case of smoking, young teenagers spend most of their time studying. However, by committing alcohol abuse during adolescence, they must cause many different social problems. According to recent research, the students who drink heavily and frequently have shown impaired memory ability, being three times more likely to attempt suicide than those who do not drink. Most certainly, there is no study on how much better the younger generation’s bodies have developed in comparison to the previous generations. Therefore, we should not decide yet to ease the restriction on under-age drinking and smoking policy.
It seems as if we should not ease the restriction on under-age drinking and smoking policy at this stage due to several reasons. Whatever has taken place, it is generally true that smoking and drinking at early age are very harmful and further problems associated with them can be caused by the younger people who abuse them. Scientists need to study more on how human beings' bodies have developed and, until then, such a furious debate should be suspended.
Hello,
I know a few people with a very bad video game addiction. They play video games night day, from the moment they wake up to the moment the go to bed. Whether it's a console game, or a computer game, they're playing, and playing, and playing. This causes them a lot of stress, and I'm starting to worry it's unhealthy.
Is a video game addiction (especially one this strong) unhealthy?
P.S. I myself do not play video games.
Well, I have a bit of an addiction, but not that strong.
Yes, it is very unhealthy! A person gets so into a game that they think it's almost real. They mix reality with virtual reality. There have been cases of suicide from games….and murders…
It's bad for your health, it makes you less active. It's just bad altogether. People who are addicted often get in bad moods alot, and get frusturated all the time.
I used to be really addicted to World of Warcraft….it practically took over my life. I quit though, and am staying away from it!
How can I cure my addiction to pornography? This is getting out of control and is affecting every aspect of my life. I NEED HELP!!!!
First, take a look at the level of stress in your life. Anyone who feels overextended on a daily basis will adopt coping techniques. Communication in relationships requires creative listening and problem solving; at times it is hard to maintain the energy to meet those challenges. In your life, do you often turn to porn as a way to distract yourself from these issues? If so, you may have become dependent on the porn as a stress reducer or coping strategy. Dealing differently with these stresses may make it easier to reduce your use of pornography.
Second, determine whether you are an occasional viewer or have become dependent on porn. Talk honestly with trusted friends, family, or a therapist about how much pornography you are watching. Try taking a “porn holiday,” lasting from two weeks to one month. As you follow through on this commitment, pay close attention to any cravings that may result or anxieties that rise into your awareness. This “holiday” is an opportunity to explore alternative coping strategies and discuss them with a trusted confidante.
Third, if you find that your plans for a porn holiday fall apart or that after such a holiday your earlier habits return, then the potential for porn dependence/addiction is very high. In order to change dependent behavior, you will need to set a priority to cut the strings that keep you tied to viewing porn. There are a number of online resources that can prove beneficial:
- Internet filters (such as ContentProtect, CyberSitter, or NetNanny) can prevent most (but not all) pornography sites from appearing on your computer.
(internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com)
- The program Covenant Eyes can also help by promoting open discussion of your porn viewing. Covenant Eyes tracks all of your computer use, including web-site visits. One or two persons who are aware that you are trying to change your porn viewing habits then receive an email synopsis. In this instance, sharing this information with your partner, with a friend, or with your therapist may be useful.
(www.covenanteyes.com)
- Twelve-step programs, such as Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, provide a recovery program that addresses the spiritual and interpersonal costs of pornography and other compulsive sexual behaviors. Based on the recovery model found in Alcoholics Anonymous, members create a recovery plan and implement it by following the steps outlined in the program. (www.slaafws.org)
As with any problem of compulsive behavior, slips and relapses are not uncommon. Becoming discouraged, however, will only hurt your progress. If you extend the time between slips, that represents improvement. If you develop different ways of coping with your stresses, you have made progress. Tracking improvements will help prevent self-defeating thoughts.
The problem of pornography dependence will undergo increasing research in the coming years, and methods of addressing this specific problem may become more refined. However, there is help available, and there is no reason to continue suffering in secrecy and shame.
I smoke black n milds weekly, n cigarettes sometimes but have never felt a addiction. What does ur body feel like when u get the craving?
It's like trying to stop eatin your favorite food. I never felt anything in my body, it was more like if you tried to quit eating meat, you just want some.